REPROBEAN_CHILD
[14] Master
Actually, it's more to do with how materialistic this society has become; it's not just an issue with women. We're constantly told since childhood about how we need to have a high paying job, live in big mansions, have a huge social circle, a nice car, a sexually attractive partner, and that's all that matters. Yet people who managed to have those things all live terrible lives. Look at the celebrities having expansive multi-million dollar weddings only to get an even more expensive divorce because of "irreconcilable differences." That's why I don't care about celebrity gossip or anything that happens on MTV/VH1/BET. It's all superficial. People in Japan would rather die than to not reach this unrealistic dream; why else is their suicide rates so high there?Well the culture changing would be nice for everyone. Since having lavish weddings that break the bank have nothing to do with actual love. Some women get more in love with their wedding than they do their husband. But since the divorce rate is around 40-50% in America. It's evident having expensive weddings really isn't important but just wasteful. If both parties used the money for something else like vacations, they'd probably be happier. Like a 30,000 dollar wedding, could be converted into multiple trips to Hawaii. Psychologically I think the later would be better for the relationship.
Where I got the number. http://money.cnn.com/2014/03/28/pf/average-wedding-cost/
Another article which shows how crazy elaborate weddings have become. And I can safely tell you, most of this is because of women. Most men don't stress about flowers or what napkin people are going to use.
http://www.costofwedding.com/
Girls are unfortunately taught by their parents that they should be treated as queens/princesses. I have nothing against a parent who wants their young daughters to feel treasured and important in a society that still favors boys, but this mentality will only bring suffering and disappointment by the time they become adults.