Sepha, I have no problems with your views. I can understand why somebody would want to be a vegetarian, I can understand why some people would only be comfortable eating from animals they kill. Two of my best friends were vegetarians for many years, I never gave them grief about it they never gave me grief about it.
The thing that ticks me off is when people start placing the immoral label on something they don't agree with, and doing it out in the open to attract attention. That's a strong word, and it usually leads to smugness and superiority and proselytizing. To me, vegetarians who try to convince you not to eat meat are no better than any religious person that comes door to door trying to convince me to convert. I would assume you wouldn't put it that way, since you help your friends prepare the meal and presumably you wouldn't help them do something you thought was immoral!
When the label put on is stronger than just immoral, but comparing it to one of the worst crimes in human history, one that I have a personal stake in, then I get angry, and I feel vindictive towards the other person. And when the person is posting poorly worded post after post that is dead easy for me to logically cut apart... well this is the result.
The thing that ticks me off is when people start placing the immoral label on something they don't agree with, and doing it out in the open to attract attention. That's a strong word, and it usually leads to smugness and superiority and proselytizing. To me, vegetarians who try to convince you not to eat meat are no better than any religious person that comes door to door trying to convince me to convert. I would assume you wouldn't put it that way, since you help your friends prepare the meal and presumably you wouldn't help them do something you thought was immoral!
When the label put on is stronger than just immoral, but comparing it to one of the worst crimes in human history, one that I have a personal stake in, then I get angry, and I feel vindictive towards the other person. And when the person is posting poorly worded post after post that is dead easy for me to logically cut apart... well this is the result.