I remember hearing something from some top marvel players a while back, "The goal of the game is to make it a one player game" Competitively speaking my goal should be to not let you play the game, I should hit you until I win. Though I will admit that when I play people who are good at any game, I enjoy losing as I tend to learn thing. Some of the best times I've had where when I was getting my ass kicked as I knew I was going to go away with some new piece of information.