@ dani
good communication doesn't really mean talking. It means you can give and read signals on what's working, not every girls works the same and a LOT of girls are either used to just encouraging the guy for the sake of their ego (especially assholes) or don't know what it should feel like...then there's one's that are just shit communicators. Moaning, body signals, figuring out whats ok and not ok to try on the spot by reading reaction as you go for it, etc... it's a skill in of itself to be adaptive to different interests and immediate needs. If your communication is poor you are likely doing a small gamut of techniques or doing the complicated things wrong. If you don't do communication and go for it, you're banking that your generic run at it aligns with there's...which works in most cases given how cookie cutter western sex is (2 positions....yaaaaaaaaaaaay....a 69 we're so extreme! *eye roll*).
It's not that "assholes" aren't capable of this, but people use it as a gimick to get girls and it often limits them to learn anything beyond the basics due to ignorance embedded within the ego and pushes towards a life style that is insecure on both parts (girls that get picked up by said assholes frequently...are usually as insecure as the guy playing the act). It can work...but I say playing the asshole card to get by is just being a scrub in the sex world. Hype!
I don't state this out of theory. I state it out of personal experience and direct talks with many of my females friends who speak openly on the topic, and many of them do go after the assholes, but the negatives I speak of are constantly brought up. They're generally exciting at first, but it becomes obvious they're limited by the gimick down the line. The girl's that keep em around...generally have emotional issues and like Nickleback...just sayin
