Ask a Virgin: Relationship Advice from Internet People

@ dani

good communication doesn't really mean talking. It means you can give and read signals on what's working, not every girls works the same and a LOT of girls are either used to just encouraging the guy for the sake of their ego (especially assholes) or don't know what it should feel like...then there's one's that are just shit communicators. Moaning, body signals, figuring out whats ok and not ok to try on the spot by reading reaction as you go for it, etc... it's a skill in of itself to be adaptive to different interests and immediate needs. If your communication is poor you are likely doing a small gamut of techniques or doing the complicated things wrong. If you don't do communication and go for it, you're banking that your generic run at it aligns with there's...which works in most cases given how cookie cutter western sex is (2 positions....yaaaaaaaaaaaay....a 69 we're so extreme! *eye roll*).

It's not that "assholes" aren't capable of this, but people use it as a gimick to get girls and it often limits them to learn anything beyond the basics due to ignorance embedded within the ego and pushes towards a life style that is insecure on both parts (girls that get picked up by said assholes frequently...are usually as insecure as the guy playing the act). It can work...but I say playing the asshole card to get by is just being a scrub in the sex world. Hype!

I don't state this out of theory. I state it out of personal experience and direct talks with many of my females friends who speak openly on the topic, and many of them do go after the assholes, but the negatives I speak of are constantly brought up. They're generally exciting at first, but it becomes obvious they're limited by the gimick down the line. The girl's that keep em around...generally have emotional issues and like Nickleback...just sayin
 
@IFB: you have got to be the biggest pussy ever in bed. girls tell you it was good because the ones you shoot for are also pussies and are worried about your feelings and don't want to make you cry with truth.

bitches want you to slap them, choke them, and call them whores. did you ever think that maybe there is no "asshole card" and that being an asshole is just the way it is?

good god...the LAST thing i want in bed is an insecure pussy asking me "do you like this?", "is this ok to do?" and poking around on me like some sort of science experiment. lol that is dealbreaker-level gayness. that may have been acceptable when i was 14 or 15, but fuck non not now. we've all seen enough porn to know exactly what is hot and what feels good and to do it. clearly you have lost at least one woman to a manlier man and are bitter about it.

@dani: quit talking about your "pussy". it is disgusting.
 
wow. I keep forgetting what this thread is about. I see it, and then i'm like, did some horrible tragedy happen in miami? and then i click.. and see just how momentarily funny it is.
thanks for the entertainment! really! great to see Ivyfanboy live up to his know-it-all status. Holy shit! i posted in here! I mean before this.. wow... i forgot all about that.. hot damn.. hot damn indeed....
 
After skimming/reading this thread again, I've made my opinion. The more rumors, gossips, and dogmatic info you know, the more paranoid and insecure you get. That's why I prefer to not be too logical about chicks/relationships unless there's a reason that calls for it. I'm manly because I think about my happiness first and then who I can share it with. And IMHO, there's no surefire way to get a certain chick in bed for instance. On the disney side, there's just being yourself and seeing how well that special someone can get along with you and seeing how long you two can coexist. On fantastical fantasy side, you just have to get every chick you find pleasing in bed by utilizing brains, dick, and what not. Depending what person you are on either side, you have no choice but to change/lie sometimes/etc. just to make a relationship work. Done venting my opinion.
 
Alright so this thread turned into... yeah anyways since everyone is throwing in their 2 cents I might as well give it a go.
Nice guys get the but end of shit because they supplicate to women and pretty much do what women want them to do as opposed to being men. They put women on a pedastol and treat them like queens when most women don't want that, they want to be treated like women. Example, I have a friend who when he talks to women he offers to buy them a drink, I found out about this and asked him a simple question "Why are you buying them a drink if they havent done anything for you?" Honestly why are you going to buy a complete stranger anything in the hopes that they might like you? It makes no sense, I mean how many guys are out there buying drinks for girls and going home alone? That is what most guys think they should do, and it fucking wrong. Girls have guys get them shit all the time and they pretty much just think "sweet more free stuff, but i guess I should talk to him for a little bit so he doesnt feel bad" Then most of the time they just find an excuse to leave and they be gone. I had a chick try and get me to buy her a drink and I looked at her and said "Sorry but its against my policy to buy women drinks, but you can buy me a drink and I'll let you kiss me" She bought said drink and we made out. The thing is its cool to be nice but not a push over, you don't have to be a "Jerk" but you shouldnt be a "nice guy" either. Be somewhere in between, know what you want and get it don't be a pansy. Women love the sex as much as guys do hell most of the time they love it more so go out there and fly fly.
 
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