I'm in the middle of Eternal Sonata, Disgaea and Fire Emblem 10 but haven't played either in forever because A, I'm playing a bunch of other games that have my interest more, B, I put away the ps3 because I haven't been playing lately because of classes and Civilization, and C, I don't have access to a wii right now. Whatever the case, Disgaea has a horrible interface compared to Fire Emblem and that alone makes it unpleasant to play.
I've noticed lately though that most rpg's these days aren't that good, but I tend to think that way about most games that get released now. I just can't think of a normal rpg that was any where near as good as ff6. Something was lost when game creators had to stop making games look and sound good completely through style because the system itself was so weak.