In the end to truly appreciate music, think of it like this:
Does the song I'm listening to deserve my time?
Will it match my "swag"?
Is the lyrics awesome and captivating to go with the BGM?
Am I gonna play it again?
etc.
For instance. Rap/hip-hop.
Sure everyone follows the trend of "clean music with clean captivation". But I just say: let the music penetrate that sweet spot of yours on how you feel about it. Imho, it helped stop making me narrow-minded to hearing foul words since I grew up with a clean mouth. I will curse when it's necessary as to rappers sometimes play with some curse words with sly and smooth metaphors with deep meanings. Sure non cursing rappers are great, but cursing doesn't hurt as long as you have a coherent rap or so. If not, use your beat to get me to enjoy the music. But if you curse and yell a lot like DMX, man are you unique lol. In a entertaining way...