The flawed concept of "Love".

You misunderstand me. As I've suggested in this topic, relationships are often created out of the blue and both partners expect everything to go happy go lucky. This has often reflected to princess stories, but instead, they run into problems they cannot fix, and then immediately give up. My main point is love isn't about sex and kissies.

EDIT: I wish to know if arguments and screaming at each others throats and insulting each other, EVERYDAY, RARELY SAYING ANYTHING NICE, FOR OVER 20 YEARS is normal? If it is, then damn marriage ISN'T for me.
 
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Forgive me if I misread you, but I never meant to imply that fighting 24/7 is normal. Some fighting, even if extreme, IS normal
 
EDIT: I wish to know if arguments and screaming at each others throats and insulting each other, EVERYDAY, RARELY SAYING ANYTHING NICE, FOR OVER 20 YEARS is normal? If it is, then damn marriage ISN'T for me.

No and it really shouldn't be anyway. imho
EDIT: To elaborate, making snide comments and messing around on occasion is fine but what you described sound really dysfunctional and mismatched. Y'know?
P.S. If you marry, GET A PRENUP. I cannot stress this enough. If the other person has a problem with it up front, they expect things to fail and for you to lose half your shit.
 
Don't get married unless you are ABSOLUTELY SURE that he/she is the 'one' for you.

Also, being sick to death of dating helps the decision making. I settled down because I was tired of the BS with dating.
 
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