Teh Gheys Thread

[orangeislands31]

I'm really not okay lol. Just thought I'd try being jolly instead of gloomy.

If you can keep this up, you will eventually fool yourself into believing you're actually happy. Trust me I know from experience that this works

 

[kerrod123]

I'm really not okay lol. Just thought I'd try being jolly instead of gloomy.

If you can keep this up, you will eventually fool yourself into believing you're actually happy. Trust me I know from experience that this works

Yeah id second this I haven't been in your situation Robert but ive had some tough times and I think a lot of my trouble was and still is caused by myself and my own damn head ive nearly pretty much destroyed myself before in a sense because of thinking negative and letting things bother me.

In some cases it can start to make you feel confused and cause conflict with yourself like I used to be really bad and I never could even pin down what was wrong with me for a long time and I got so depressed its like I was on the point of no return its like id lost all my life force tbh, the mind is your worst enemy but it can also be your best friend its a very powerful thing.

Ill be honest I got so bad its like I was going insane and I started questioning myself so badly and because of how I thought negatively about all of the bad things back then I would be ok one minute then suddenly get depressed and wouldn't even know why and quite often too I really did go quite mental and am still recovering from it really but im nearly completely over it now..i think, id flip moods instantly and still do sometimes hence why some people call me tira, just bash your head on a metal ring or against the wall like I do lol and everything will be much prettier XD

But in a nutshell im saying all of that happened really because of how I perceived and dealt with everything in a negative manner there really is more to it than making you more depressed, over time it really can screw your head up and its actually you doing it to yourself.

If you start to think positive when things are bad or when you just feel "neutral" like im starting to do now you'll feel much better for it, some days ive gone to work or whatever and felt meh or terrible and ive just not bothered myself about it and ive left work feeling absolutely great for no apparent reason, if you think negatively about things then you just make it worse.

And about that guy you "messed" with, its great your having fun still but if youre so hard up for money be careful how your spending it lol :)

Also sorry its late but happy belated birthday Seren hope you had a good one! :)

 

[WindupSkeleton]

How much did you pay him?

Also, general hetroflexible topic, I once got myself a straight well hung twink using the following master tactics:
Me: "So, which way do you swing?"
Him: "I'm straight."
"Have you ever thought about it?"
"No."
"So how do you know?"
"What?"
"Well, if you've never considered it, how could you possibly say for certain what you were?"
"Er... Uhm."
"Just saying."

The next day his first words were "Fuck you" and later on "fuck me".

Best part being I was just messing with him and suddenly he's bi-curious. Unexpected results are best results.

 

[Robert_J_King]

How much did you pay him?

$50 and @kerrod123 I wouldn't have to do this if guys gave me the time of day. Like, ever. I've never had a BF or anything significant because gay men are assholes who can't see past themselves.

 

[kerrod123]

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Wow good going with that, lucky you! Ive had my chances to be with a few supposedly straight guys before but it never came to be for various things, i fancied one of the guys in school who was supposedly straight or maybe he was and he just liked me or something.
Anyway when he found out I liked him he said a bit later actually he likes me too and then next thing you know everyone is making fun of him, next I was told id made him cry at home because of it and it wasn't me at all it was because of his asshole so called mates making things hell for him because of it so that never came to be.

Its a shame but it also angers me that theres probably loads of guys, more so than girls id say that have atleast bi-curious tendencies and they just don't express it or even do what they want or be who they want because of how society is and how males are seen or "expected" to be like and I hate it.
We need to go back to the greeks mentality towards gayness lol atleast they could express it and all the bi curious guys that hide it could too.

@Robert_J_King I see now but don't take it to heart I was just playing with ya :)
and your right really gay people complain about how were treated and not accepted in society but yet we don't even accept each other and are completely selfish and vain in general, not that straight guys are any different really but how can we expect to be accepted if we don't even accept people in our own "gay community"