Teh Gheys Thread

Feminine guys tend to think they are better than anyone else: sexier, smarter, classier. Every other guy that shares a resemblance with them is IMMEDIATELY marked as a rival. Actually, every gay guy is that way, but feminine guys are far more "jealous", from what I experienced.
The only gay guy I got along with the most was my bestfriend. Problem is, when he came out to me last year, things changed from his side: he didn't have time to see me, to call me or text me, while before that we were together every weekend, texting 24/7 and planning stuff everyday. I really do miss him to be honest :(
I think it's hard to be friend with another gay guy: sooner or later there will be some backstabbing or some distancing. Again, from what I experienced.
 
JohnMcKee said:
Feminine guys tend to think they are better than anyone else: sexier, smarter, classier. Every other guy that shares a resemblance with them is IMMEDIATELY marked as a rival. Actually, every gay guy is that way, but feminine guys are far more "jealous", from what I experienced.
The only gay guy I got along with the most was my bestfriend. Problem is, when he came out to me last year, things changed from his side: he didn't have time to see me, to call me or text me, while before that we were together every weekend, texting 24/7 and planning stuff everyday. I really do miss him to be honest :(
I think it's hard to be friend with another gay guy: sooner or later there will be some backstabbing or some distancing. Again, from what I experienced.
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This is the exact opposite of my experience. I would go so far as to say it's not representative of most gay people's experience. What else happened to you to form this perception, if I may?
 
Can't say I've ever experienced that personally, but then I haven't met too many feminine guys. I guess there's an arrogance born of that kind of behaviour, due to this need to be "fierce" and "plastic" - Feminine guys I HAVE seen seem to imitate the whole 'popular girl' trope, which includes venomous and licentious behaviour.
 
Synalon said:
This is the exact opposite of my experience. I would go so far as to say it's not representative of most gay people's experience. What else happened to you to form this perception, if I may?
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Well: there was that guy I was at school with. We were talking everyday and I could consider him a friend. Then I heard that he kept talking shit about me in my back, inventing maaaaany stuff. That was my first backstabbing.
Then there was that other guy I got along with. He had a boyfriend, and when I told him about my crush, he cheated on his boyfriend with my crush, stating "I wanted to see if I could get him quicker than you do." That was the second time.
Once I went to a gay bar (went there 3 times, no more haha) with various guys I knew. Not to boast, I'm not the ugly kind of guy and I had quite a success. I could see my "friends'" venom being spit while guys were offering me some drinks. And most of my friends were also being offered drinks. Dunno why, I felt like an enemy.
So, you see, I didn't have many good experiences...
Le_Bello said:
Can't say I've ever experienced that personally, but then I haven't met too many feminine guys. I guess there's an arrogance born of that kind of behaviour, due to this need to be "fierce" and "plastic" - Feminine guys I HAVE seen seem to imitate the whole 'popular girl' trope, which includes venomous and licentious behaviour.
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I totally agree with you! That's exactly what I think :P
 
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