Teh Gheys Thread

Theoretically the point of a relationship is that you fulfill each others needs. If you're compelled to sleep with someone else, I would feel like there's something wrong with our relationship. There's also that whole trust part if you do that after I voice my concerns.

Then again, I can only dream of having the first world problem of not knowing who to sleep with.

Granted, and understandably so.
The way I see it, is that there are things I want to do that my partner doesn't, and likewise there're things he wants to do that I'm not comfortable with. (Though I try to be more accommodating to his needs because I'm his first and only, whereas I couldn't begin to count the number of sexual partners I've had.)

Now, whilst we try to see to each other's needs as much as possible, I think it's inevitable that there'll be things your partner just can't provide. And in my case I get bored easy, which sounds all manner of callous but what can I say? Our sex life is fine, great in fact, I just also want to see other willies, and I also miss the ladies on occasion.

Of course, to each their own eh? I'm happy with him, he's happy with me. I don't need anything else, I just want it. =];}D
 
I do miss girls sometimes...a lot recently but I've been exclusively with guys for the past four months so that could explain it. I might talk my partner into letting us have a somewhat open relationship.
 
We have a girl we have threesomes with occasionally but that is only one person. There ain't no freedom to bang who you please around here.

Also I'm never bringing another guy into our bed.
 
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