Teh Gheys Thread

Wyde said:
Now, though, I feel like forcing a topic shift; I'm interested in hearing what people have to say on the subject of sex inside and outside of relationships. I admit my moral compass is definitely on the looser end of the casual/monogamy scale, but I'm not really sure how the ratio holds up among the general populous of those interested in the same sex. And I'm a nosy bastard, don't you know.
Click to expand...

I've been discussing this with my partner, trying to lay down some ground rules for an "open" relationship - So to speak. But he's not up for it.

I don't see what wrong with both having my cake and eating it. After all, what am I supposed to do with my cake? Display it? Smear it on a wall?
 
Theoretically the point of a relationship is that you fulfill each others needs. If you're compelled to sleep with someone else, I would feel like there's something wrong with our relationship. There's also that whole trust part if you do that after I voice my concerns.

Then again, I can only dream of having the first world problem of not knowing who to sleep with.
 
Even being in a very strong relationship doesn't necessarily stop either party or both from having sexual [or even romantic] interest in others. I believe that's simply human [and biological] nature.

I'm next to certain that I'd be interested in sexual experiences with others if I were in a relationship myself, though preferably with said speculative partner and absolutely with their explicit permission or shared interest. At the same time, I'm fully aware of complete contention with monogamy, and I've come to think of that as the "standard" opinion anyway.
 
In my previous relationship, my girl was cool with an open relationship, she saw me mess with other girls, I saw her check out other guys, relationship wouldve been perfect, if she wasnt so annoying.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top