Ring
Lay still now
Sorry, but I can't say that it only happens in the gay community. You'd be a fool to think only gay people judge.......str8 men and women are just as bad, if not worse than we are. Being that some of us strive more then others to make such stand-out appearances , it can be viewed as a cliche of the famous Plastiques clique. When you're gay, you have to step your game up in every way, so you're not just seen as another abominable disfigurement to society.
I never said it only happens in gay community, just that it appears to be more common.
"abominable disfigurement", lol I actually had to google translate this to understand what it meant.