Deleting threads is serious business. Unless it's porn, spam or over the top violence. Threads should be locked and a reason why should be stated as the last post.
And mods really shouldn't fight with members, just do the job, state the rule you're enforcing and be done with it. If someone is being a bitch address it in the mod forum like you do and the rest of moderation will decide there how to proceed.
MODERATORS
* As a Soul Arena moderator, your primary responsibility is NOT to discipline other members. Your primary responsibility is to organize information and to manage your soul arena so that members will find it easier to retrieve information. Disciplining members is a secondary responsibility but should not be your main focus and choice for being a Soul Arena moderator. You are not a member of some "elite group" of players who command other players at their will.
SUPER MODERATORS
* Super Moderators are the disciplinarians of the forums. Anyone causing trouble will have to answer to them. Super Moderators have access to the entirety of the forums and are able to give any user an infraction if required. It is your chief responsibility to make registered users as happy to be here as you are. I also ask, that as a super moderator, you do everything you can to make a user's stay as pleasant as possible: answer their questions and say hello to them in introduction threads.
ADMINISTRATORS
* The only people who should be banning anyone, outside of the infraction system. The buck stops here. If you feel a member needs to be banned, please contact an administrator; even as a super moderator, you should not be banning anyone.