Teh Gheys Thread

your totally right but people are just too closed minded and judgemental to accept such things or atleast try understand feelings they may be having and all they do is judge other people about them, this is why im beggining to hate the general populous because of everyone been assholes and just judging everyone and judging with their eyes only to top it off.

My bfs that great I can talk to him about such things and tell him anything really, like if ive seen a hot guy I liked when we were away or together and tbh its fun and freeing to be able to do it especially when were together because we can both look at guys together and go ooh hes nice and have a laugh about it
and its what makes the relationship work because theres no hiding anything and no need to since we can talk about it all.

Ive talked to him before about me having feelings for other guys and about having a groupie if the opportunity arrised and he understands where im coming from about it all, if the feelings are true and not for anything bad like its just love or harmless fun then theres no reason why they should be shunned, I just believe it should be with your partner knowing about it though.

My bf told me a bit back about a guy who kept turning round to look at him on the bus when he thought he wasn't looking and when the other guy got off he looked at him again and my bf looked back and gave him a big nice smile.
And you know what? I was happy as hell that my bf told me because it shows we can be open with each other and not just fall out over little things and that's the way relationships should be imo.

I was really happy aswell because he'll have made that guys day its not often you can let another guy know you like him and especially get a positive reaction because of how things are, the lack of gay people and also because it can be damn right scary.
In some cases you fear you'll get beaten up for it so im really happy my bf did that, this world is cruel and I think we should spread love like that :)
 
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orangeislands31 said:
Yeah having feelings for someone else is inevitable, especially of you're in it for the long run with your partner. It's tough because majority would deem it wrong right off the bat, but what most people don't realize is that it's completely natural. I wouldn't be surprised if there are studies about how humans aren't naturally monogamous creatures. Idk how one would prove that sort of thing, but I think I'm about to look into that. Lol
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Good luck!

I've kissed a fair few people, but I've always told Joe about it. Honestly if presented with the opportunity (again) I might even sleep with someone else. Though his reaction to me making out with someone else was less than stellar.
Least I was honest, not like he'd have known otherwise.
 
Some people are pretty jelly when it comes to that sort of thing. I think I could even find myself getting jealous in that situation. Maybe it's possible to suppress the jealousy for the greater good tho.
 
orangeislands31 said:
Some people are pretty jelly when it comes to that sort of thing. I think I could even find myself getting jealous in that situation. Maybe it's possible to suppress the jealousy for the greater good tho.
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It's fair enough and I understand it. At the same time though, why am I ignoring my feelings when we should be reaching a compromise instead?
Not that I require relationship of course.
 
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