The flawed concept of "Love".

Mitalius said:
I don't see it like this, but yet looking at other peopls I often see it like this, *sees intriguing figure, "Hi I want to date you!" Often do I see this happen, and often do I see relationships fall apart afterwards when two people date eachother not knowing a damn thing about eachother.
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What's so bad about that? That's the point of dating. You see someone you like, you go out on a date, find out more about them, then give em the D hard like Seattle if it all works out.

If it doesn't, then you repeat the dating process until you do find someone you no longer want to date, but want to build a meaningful relationship with.

Problems start when person A wants X while person B wants Y, or gets tired of person A's shit while trying to get some of that sweet ass from person C. I wouldn't dwell too much about it. You have your whole life to worry about it.
 
Malice said:
What's so bad about that? That's the point of dating. You see someone you like, you go out on a date, find out more about them, then give em the D hard like Seattle if it all works out.

If it doesn't, then you repeat the dating process until you do find someone you no longer want to date, but want to build a meaningful relationship with.

Problems start when person A wants X while person B wants Y, or gets tired of person A's shit while trying to get some of that sweet ass from person C. I wouldn't dwell too much about it. You have your whole life to worry about it.
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Oh, I thought they started from being really good friends...But nowadays that's the concept of a...EhhHmm...FRIENDZONE?
 
Mitalius said:
Oh, I thought they started from being really good friends...But nowadays that's the concept of a...EhhHmm...FRIENDZONE?
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It's usually harder to get relationships off of being friends. I wouldn't say because of the labeled friendzone per se. More because you want to grab someones attention early on when there is more interest. On the same note, It's important to make your intentions obvious. Like if you become friends with someone, they'll start to think that's the intention. But if I come up to a girl and shortly after ask her out. She clearly knows what my intentions are, whether she agrees with them or not. A lot of people who get friend zoned imo don't know how to move on when they got the message someone isn't interested. Or they just didn't have the balls to ask someone out. Hinting at things and directly asking are two different things.

It's good to try and find people that interest you and you want to hang out with. But imo, friends are friends, and relationships are relationships. You'll probably want different things from both. Like there are friends of mine that are women that I would 100% never date. Probably more the reason I'm friends with them haha.
 
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