WindupSkeleton
[14] Master
Also I'm making an update:
MICHAEL PLAYED ME. He has a boyfriend and the other day tried to kiss me and makes out with my neck and like no
But apparently him and his boyfriend had a major meltdown and he was SO damn upset today and I'm assuming they broke up because of how bad he was.
Do I use this as an open window or what.
Absolutely not.
He's using that as an excuse to justify using you. If he cared about his boyfriend, meltdown or not, he shouldn't be kissing anyone else. He's being unfaithful, and you can't know he won't be unfaithful to you if anything progressed. On top of that, you'd end up being somehow held responsible for their break-up.
The only other way to explain his actions, is if he genuinely didn't consider it cheating, but not informing you of his relationship at the times leads me to believe this isn't the way of things.
Trust me - I'm a hypocrite.
I've kissed a LOT of other people while I've been with my current partner, though in my cases they've always known I was spoken for, and I always told him afterwards. I couldn't abide if anyone did it to me though, horrible eh?
Keep it classy, and no emotional stuff. This guy sounds pretty shady. You'll only get hurt if you get with this guy, trust me.
Update of my own:
I cut off my friend pretty much altogether. Haven't talked to him or even looked at him since it happened. I'm definitely happier for it.
Good move. Maybe in times things will heal, but it's best to just have some space.