Infidelity, I lose!!!

Everyone gets dates online or through friends nowadays. Or you get lucky in just run into someone. >_>
 
seneca_22 said:
Ok, thanks for the blunt, but very true statements. Need to read stuff like that to keep me focused. I read it all, y'all are right.

So now we're just trying to work things out for the girls. However she's still lacking in the "respect" department as she tries to just decree what she's going to do, or what's she's doing with the girls, without any of my input. I'm trying to work with her, but that doesn't help anything.

Getting back to digging and blaming, y'all are right. It won't lead anywhere, the crap happened, and anything I find out afterwards is just more salt in the wound. It's quite and adjustment to realized I'm a single dad now, after 11 years of a relationship.

Anyone know how people freakin date anymore? Not that I'm looking to jump into anything right away, I still gotta get myself re-situated before I can even think about that. But HRD and AMillion, y'all have been great, seriously. I appreciate the honesty and bluntness, as I don't know you and you don't know me, but y'all have a nice look on the situation from an adult perspective, so again, thanks.

Alright man, if y'all got anything else to add, feel free. But I'll stop dragging this on and start moving things forward for my girls.
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As far as dates go the scene ain't like it use too be when we were coming up. It depends on what kind of girl you look for. Basically be yourself and you gotta have a good since of humor girls love too laugh. By reading your article i can tell your looking for an mature woman. I know you already know how they are.... just mingle hit a club or two check out your workplace. Be sophisticated with it though last thing a woman wants too see is a guy who can't control his emotions or lingering on to past relationships.

I should have been a therapist instead of the medical field. My advice is marvelous.
 
Dating? You dont need that right now. Its so tough for use older guys, especially us older guys with kids, to find someone worth a shit. I actually met my wife at my shop. She was my receptionist. Dipped my pen in the company ink you could say. Its been a really rough road but in the end everything came out in the end. But this thread isnt for my life story...its for yours...lol

Its really tough for us older guys to get to meet someone thats worth a shit. Much less being older and having kids! "where to find a date" is one of those questions that if you ask 10 different people that question you will get 10 different answers. Anyone significant that I have met, I met when I wasnt looking for it. And when I did go looking for it...It was mostly just to get my dick wet (its a little deeper than that, but Im nutshelling it).

Do sweat it right now, your in rebound status anyway. Maybe try getting your dick wet. We are guys, we need that once in a while. It aint gonna hurt no one now is it? Except maybe you. Could mess with your head a little, tread carefully there.

Give it time though holmes, Figure out life. Stop sweating what shes going to go do, with who. Its technically not your concern. Its really hard to come to that mindset, but in the end thats where you will be, not giving a shit about her, and getting on with what you want in life. By asking her what shes doing, with who and when, is more or less the "prying" thing we are trying to warn you about. By trying to get into her life and her new business (however un-justified it may seem) you are rubbing salt in that wound. Be careful. She might be trying to be sparing of your feelings by only telling "what you need to know".

Ive been there, Ive done all these things that youre doing. But now I look back and consider it a growing process, and you are growing from it, But who ever said getting through this shit or "growing" was an easy road?

Now I should be a mutha fuckin thearapist!!

HRD
 
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Alright cool man, I'll just see what happens. Right now I've just been hitting up parks. Once in a while there are some moms who take their kids out for the day. Getting a little action would be nice, but I'm not going to press it. If it happens, it happens.
 
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