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The thing that upsets me is that I'm unable to communicate my rage that I have bottled inside to my gf, because it's her brother. I'm contemplating on telling my parents because I'm just so upset about how he basically gets away with punching me in the face.

So yes, I turn to 8wayrun to express my frustration b/c I'm a loser with no friends .

Thanks for the funny responses and insights, I really appreciate it. Also I would definately get DEX to beat him up if I could.

I really hate lose-lose situations. Another thing that grinds my gears is that he acts like nothing happened, while I'm here feeling like my vacation is ruined

Also, getting revenge on her brother may cause him to think twice about being such a douche/abusing my gf.

I'm just not sure what to do guys.

I just wish I stayed home instead so I could play SCV all day.

Another thing that bothers me is that if I do get revenge, he'll probably get his friends to fight me.

This is the thing that pisses me off about bullies. You never win.

Sorry to hear dude, shame you are cornered.

He talks shit about how I hide behind my gf.

But the outcomes of either decisions results in him hiding behind his relatives/friends if I do get revenge or hiding behind with BS if I tell his father (because apparently being successful in life is correlated to having a stable relationship.. SMH)

If it's your girls brother, let her deal with it. If you tried, shit goes down a more serious & fucked up way where it will end horribly for you all more often then not. If he's near, take her & move. If he follows, let her deal with it. If he acts even more of an ass, step in. Don't antagonize, yet, until he crosses the line.

The trick is, is your baiting him to fuck up if he really does. That way it's his fault when you fuck him up, & no one can blame you.

Do you think exposing his ass on social network is a good idea?

I mean like his facebook and instagram. It really bothers me that his friends are oblivious to what he does.

Also thanks for the advice

Exposing him for everyone to see would only cause problems. He'll probably get even worse if you did. Showing you don't want any trouble would be more mature & healthier upon the family & your girl. Don't let him or his friends stupidity bother you, they have nothing to do with you & your girl. Unless he keeps following you guys around, bothering you.

Sigh. So it seems that there's not gonna be any consequences for his violent action of punching me as there's not much I can do but act neutral. Waiting for him to fuck up again is probably too late since a week has passed..

Shame that offenders nowadays get away with anything.

But what I'm concerned is that he abuses my gf. Like he punched her in the head once and she got a bruise. Their parents are divorced and they live with their mean grandparents who don't provide anything but a roof for them. He makes her buy clothes and food for him, and she just complied as she assumes the role since she's the older sibling.

She's unwilling to tell her father and speak up because he is already stressed out with his own problems.

So what am I supposed to do if she can't deal
with him?

I just wish we could settle this with SCV and kick his ass in a FT10, because fighting games are a measurement of ones strength kappa.

Unfortunately he doesn't play SCV

Is it wrong that I'm feeling upset over him getting away with punching me in the face? It bothers me to the point that I'm obsessed with it, only whenever I see him ,of course.

Sounds like you definitely need to pick her up & go to other places. Going to her house is just a trap for you to get fucked up by a lot of problems. Does she have a room with a lock you both can stay in? To not be bothered by anyone? If not, then definitely take her some where else. Sounds like you don't like it there at all.

I'm on vacation with her and her brother and were temporarily living with their family relatives so yeah.. Tough luck for me.

But once we return home, problems arise again.

DEX, should I tell my parents about the incident?

Also, it looks like everything's been said. I'd like to thank you again for staying with me and my rant.