Nah, I'm saying battling Catgirl can be potentially harder than someone battling themselves. My only advice to you man, is just be sure to teach and live through experience. Catgirl actually nailed that point perfectly in that PM. As trolly as it may have seemed, it was solid advice.
I'll never hate you. You'll always be good people in my book. But its good to talk about what you know rather than what you don't know. I'm sure there are people who have saved themselves for marriage and have divorced. Also people who have chose that path and regretted it. But the only way to know is to actually live it.
In general, no one is perfect. Every last one of us flawed as it says in Romans 3:10. Still, I want to tackle an old school moral of mine. To stay virgin until marriage.
Sure I struggle, but that's what it takes to show a lady I'm serious. I know I may not get the ideal one, but god will reveal one to me.
If anything, it's the only hope for my future. Eventually this world will pass. No one knows when, but I hope get to be with god in heaven should it happen.
You can say that, but saying "I am no one" is lack of confidence in oneself. Anyone that puts a front like "it doesn't hurt" yet has to explain is prideful. Not in a "I'm all that" way, but in a "I'm not gonna let them see my weak side". Add the fact you add in anime characters so they can understand you, and I smell someone who genuinely wants to feel appreciated.