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Embrace it homie. Lemme know when you want my help throwing the bachelor party.

Also, tell me about this love interest.

There's just this girl like...i mean love and i barley know her because she's just one grade below me so I only get to see her in the hallways/lunch for a very short time.

You a youngin, so my only advice is to man up and talk to her. Doesn't have to be about anything really important, then ask her out. Worst thing she can say is no.

I've lost my appetite a lot ever since this monday up till now. I keep daydreaming about her and i have the attention span of about a 5 year old.

Yeah i know. If i don't say something to her now i know damn well i'm gonna regret it in the future.

That's the spirit, you got my support man. Toy Soldier God has your back.

Here's my 2 cents and you can take it or leave it:

You love her, but you don't know anything about her? If you're so infatuated over this girl, stop... If you go up to her with those feelings, it will show and she may not like the "needy" vibe you'll give her. Don't put so much thought in the interaction.

My advice is to make eye contact (very important) with her first, smile and say hey. If she's friendly and says hey back, it's a greenlight. Girls don't like the whole "walking out of the blue to say hello." It's awkward for them. If there's something about her that you notice, mention it (it gives you something to talk about).

Make sure you listen to her; girls love it when you bring up their interest days after meeting them.

If you haven't spoken before, ask for her name, but don't say yours unless she asks. If she asks for yours, she's interested, but if not, probably not. Understand that not every girl you like is going to like you and vise versa. Talk to her with the mindset that you're fine with either succeeding or getting rejected.

Just don't chase her/be her friend. The media likes to say you should chase, but that kills attraction.

The truth is we're lusting after a certain lady. I don't mean sexually though. It becomes love when you're willing to treat her like a flower. Too much attention will choke them. Too little and they'll wilt.

Ladies may think they're strong, but if you show your devotion by being you and treating them nicely, those flowers will either bloom for you or you search elsewhere.

Worst case scenario is she'll miss out on you. Be confident in who you are and go for it. There is no surefire way to get a lady.

Well she knows my name and both of our families know eachother somewhat. I guess were not complete strangers I do live in a very small town (pop: 1,847) most people know eachother.

I'd like to just start off by saying hi to her and try to talk to her a little more here and there?

But i wanna thank you guys for the support/advice you've given me. It helps a lot.
thanks.

DON'T LISTEN TO REPROBEAN CHILD AND YOU'LL DO FINE.

There's nothing wrong with my advice. He needs to know if she's attracted to him for anything to happen. Who wants to date a girl who doesn't like him?

You, I'd not take it too seriously. You got some rapport if you know her; that's good. You can try to make her laugh, but do it naturally (make her laugh without EXPECTING a reaction)

Love is playful and fun. And when you're with people in general, you must EXPRESS, not IMPRESS. Remember that.

Just do your best, You. Take it one baby step at time. Sure what Reprobean says sounds "perfect", but I personally believe you should do things the way you see fit.

I rather you stumble on being you, because love isn't something we can nail perfectly. All that matters is if the lady likes you, do your best for her sake.