Alex he needs to stop worrying how other people play and focus on his game instead. And with him always posting depressed stuff, he needs to leave that behind.
I like your gusto too. I think you've got that gusto a bit misdirected, though. And despite that saying this is basically asking to get chewed out despite being a legitimate medical condition, depression isn't something you just "leave behind." It's not a switch you flip on and off. You have to pull it by the roots, if you can find them.