I think maybe you should try giving this guy a chance, even if just a small one to see how you are with it.
I have a thing for black hair and the "I have issues" looking guys. I also like masculine looking guys which makes it hard for me because a majority of the masculine guys I'm buy are straight and/or taken. That was part of my attraction to Charlie because of DAT BLACK HAIR and eventually I learned he had some issues and he's such a fucking top.
But really I'm mostly in to white guys. Idk why just I can't get in to anything else.